"They say that manners make the man"

Be a gentleman and contact me in a business professional manner. I prefer inquiries without ‘acronyms’ and do not have a menu list as I find them tacky and demeaning. I like to provide genuine and authentic connections that are more about who you and I are as people. Vague enquiries will be dismissed.

New friends: I’m flattered that you have chosen me. You may either email me all the date details or fill in the form. Please peruse my Etiquette and Donations prior to submitting.

I respect data privacy and value safety for each of us. I personally handle all e-mails and promptly delete your data after screening from an SSL-encrypted Secure Page form. Once a date and time have been agreed upon, a deposit will be requested to secure the date.

Save both of us time! No additional screening needed if you email me directly from your official work or business email. Otherwise please see the screening options below.

Chose TWO of the following:

Providing false information will put you in the black list.

OPTION 1. Identity verification.

Government photo ID. Please leave photo, full name and age clearly visible but you may blur other info if you wish.

OPTION 2. Employment verification, any of the below:

A company website link where you are clearly listed as an employee, owner, etc.., showing your full name and photo.
A link to your LinkedIn profile, showing your photo and +300 connections. If your LinkedIn profile has no photo, I will send you an invitation to connect from a discreet blank profile and you tell me the name of this profile.
An email with any or no content, sent from your official work or business email (I have an unpublished male gmail address for discretion, if needed). For screening only. You won't receive a response to your work e-mail address.

OPTION 3. References from 2 or 3 reputable providers you have seen in the past 12 months. They must be upscale and have own website.

OPTION 4. Long-term member of P411 with at least 5 okays. If you are not on P411, you can sign up here. Mine is P374194.

OPTION 5. Active social media profiles along with a selfie with today's date written on paper.

Screening is non-negotiable. I would never put your discretion at risk or contact you for any reason other than planning the logistics of our time together and all communication will be very discreet.

Chose TWO of the following:

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Providing false information will put you in the black list.

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OPTION 1. Identity verification.​

Government photo ID. Please leave photo, full name and age clearly visible but you may blur other info if you wish.

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OPTION 2. Employment verification, any of the below:

A company website link where you are clearly listed as an employee, owner, etc.., showing your full name and photo.

A link to your LinkedIn profile, showing your photo and +300 connections. If your LinkedIn profile has no photo, I will send you an invitation to connect from a discreet blank profile and you tell me the name of this profile.

An email with any or no content, sent from your official work or business email (I have an unpublished male gmail address for discretion, if needed). For screening only. You won't receive a response to your work e-mail address.

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OPTION 3. References from 2 or 3 reputable providers you have seen in the past 12 months. They must be upscale and have own website.

OPTION 4. Long-term member of P411 with at least 5 okays. If you are not on P411, you can sign up here. Mine is P374194.

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OPTION 5. Active social media profiles along with a selfie with today's date written on paper.

OPTION 1. Identity verification.